Positive

So, Mommy asked me awhile back to start thinking something positive about myself every day and recording it to submit to her every week. Well, I've sucked at that for sure. But my own boy brought something home from DBT the other day, and it reminded me of what I was supposed to be doing,…

Intimacy

I honestly don't know if this post will make sense to anyone but me, but it's really the only semi-private space I have to talk about this, so you'll have to forgive me. I am learning. Transitions bring transitions, bring more transitions. Hearing the love of my life, my partner of 15 years, the man…

Starting Over

Sometimes starting over is the hardest thing to do. I've erased a majority of the posts on this blog. Back in December, my Lady left me. No warning. I had no idea. In fact, I was possibly only weeks away from proposing. The custom book I was making to hide her ring in and the…

Growing Pains

When people ask about polyamory, they are most likely to hear "Well, everyone does poly differently..." But inside the community, certain "forms" of poly definitely seem to be better accepted than others. I mention this because my Lady and I have been going through some growing pains lately. And let me just say as a…